The Relationship Game

The reason I call it a game is because you never know what is going to happen when you start a new relationship. I use to get really excited when I met someone new. You know the feeling of "butterflies" in yours stomach, etc. Now, I almost stop myself from getting excited because you never know what kind of "game" the man is into playing this time around. I'll tell you one thing, men always amaze me with their bulls**t. What ever happened to meeting someone and falling in love? Call me jaded, but I don't feel like people want to be in love anymore. So many people just want to date around and hook up with whomever is available. Its getting tougher and tougher to find a real, healthy relationship. I'm not the only one who feels this way. I am constantly hearing the same thing from many of my girlfriends. So is there a right way to play the "game"?